Basically, this article is a true life experience writing from the introspective mind of the writer and do share more knowledge on how to deal with introvert lifestyle.
firstly, let me just say being quiet gives peace of mind, but when being quiet around people creates curiosity and thinking of being nervous at all times, i would say being quiet is part of nature that you cant do aware with, that is learn to please yourself, because if you people people because you want them to be comfortable around you then it will fall back on you one day someone upset you then you go back to your quiet zone as usually, am that kind of person but truly the only secret i discovered for a quiet person to get along is always imagine much love around you and be grateful that people should show you much love, better still through the day you will find out people will show love and flock around you so much like a good scent.that applies to me.
furthermore, also to share more views as an introvert, it's not that you don't like to talk but you just don't want to talk stupid about things that are not necessary, often guys that wants to act jovial unnecessarily get poofed off or snapped on for being nosey, as i said if you learn to manage your period of solitude hopefully people will always love you and enjoy your kind of person but trust me you will be an icon of topics for the whole century bcos of your quietness, its the life just learn to cope with people. but firstly makeup your mind that ok fine i want to be friendly and funny to people and truely you start acting that way and people will love u to be surprised.my experiences when i had to leave job for vacation for two days when i came back i got two hugs from female colleagues, one of them huged me so tight with great emotion and told me why i had to leave for long that she missd my presence and the other was spanish lady , which she always make a statement every morning we resume "BASH I LOVE YOU! and i reply LOVE YOU TOO BABY". furthermore, love is the greatest when you learn to use that energy, you recover fast.
Lastly, one last point why some people are quiet could be based on their past life faced abuse, molestation, rape or maltreating during childhood which can lead to isolation, hatred, lack of interest , abandoned feeling all through the victim lifetime,i am a victim of such by my step mum.
I hope this short article impact someone